Michelle Obama Unveiled: 3 Victory Lessons from the First Lady, Regardless of Her Attire

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On Tuesday, January 27, 2015, Michelle Obama did not wear a veil at Saudi King Abdullah's funeral. In Saudi Arabia, women are expected to cover their heads yet exceptions are made for foreigners.  Michelle Obama reminded us how relevant our fashion choices can be in this day and age.  Some analyzed The First Lady's decision as a fashion choice yet it showed her sense of style: Not dependent on her clothing yet associated with her unique way of carrying herself.  Whether she was taking a stand on women's rights, or not, The First Lady carved out her own individuality.  Earning the nickname: The First Lady of Fashion, Michelle Obama reminds the world that style matters.

What image are you creating of yourself? Michelle Obama has mastered non-verbal communication through her brilliant style.  Style is used to tell everyone who you are without having to say a word.  What sets you apart? Style is defined as "a distinctive appearance, to which something is designed".  On the contrary, fashion can be a popular trend that will eventually fade.  Style is eternal and personal.  Style is about individuality while fashion is dictated by commonality.  The First Lady's style is ground-breaking...take notes!



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A First Lady with a sense of humor? Oxymoron...right? Michelle Obama proves that it is possible and she shows that it is OK to be happy.  What happens when you mix The First Lady, Jimmy Fallon and Will Ferrell? Pure comedy.  "Ew!"..."the Triple-Hand hug".  Yes, it is still acceptable to have a sense of humor.  The world has fell in love with The First Lady because we are able to laugh with her.  It is easy to feel like we have built a strong bond with Michelle Obama proving that laughter truly is the shortest distance between two people.

Need to create a life-long bond? Do it through your sense of humor.  Everyone knows that life is difficult and there always seems to be a new problem on the horizon.  It is too easy to dwell on negativity therefore focus on what makes you smile, better yet, focus on what makes you laugh so hard that you cannot laugh anymore!



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In 2009, The First Lady hugged Queen Elizabeth II.  This is not typical in the Buckingham Palace.  British media went wild, describing the hug as a 'breach of protocol' as well as a 'beautiful show of affection'.  This was the first time in decades that the queen displayed such public affection with a first lady or dignitary.

Irvin Ball states, "A hug is the perfect gift.  One size fits all and nobody minds if you exchange it".  When people are facing difficulties, words may not be enough...instead a hug and ears to listen to whatever they want to talk about is often all they need.  A hug tells a person that you love them without the words.  They are often described as the 'universal medicine'.  They can make all the pain disappear! Hugs...Do not avoid them and give more of them!